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You don’t owe anyone a plus-one explanation.⁠ You don’t owe anyone a plus-one explanation.⁠ ⁠ Guest lists are one of the trickiest parts of planning, especially when emotions and expectations get involved. Deciding who gets a plus-one isn’t about being difficult or excluding people. It’s about capacity, budget, and creating a day that feels right for you.⁠ ⁠ It’s okay to:⁠ • Keep numbers small⁠ • Prioritise close relationships⁠ • Set boundaries without over-explaining⁠ • Make decisions that suit your venue, your plans, and your comfort⁠ ⁠ A clear, kind decision is better than one made out of pressure. Most guests understand more than we give them credit for.⁠ ⁠ Your wedding isn’t a negotiation. It’s a celebration you’re hosting in a way that works for you.⁠ ⁠ ⁠ @simplyperfectnz⁠ @kelliefrancisphotography
A question we love asking couples after the weddin A question we love asking couples after the wedding… What’s one thing you worried about… that really didn’t matter in the end? The flowers being perfect. The exact timing. Whether everyone noticed every little detail. Most couples tell us the same thing. Once the day arrived, those worries faded fast. What stuck was how it felt, who was there, and the moments they didn’t plan for. If you’re in the thick of planning, take this as permission to loosen your grip just a little. Not everything needs your energy. We’d love to hear it… what’s one thing you’re glad you didn’t stress about?
We’re seeing more couples step away from traditi We’re seeing more couples step away from traditional tiered cakes and choose something that suits how they want the day to feel.⁠ ⁠ Millefoglie is elegant, unfussy, and made for sharing.⁠ It’s a subtle shift, but it says a lot about where weddings are heading next.⁠ ⁠ Saved for anyone planning a 2026 celebration 🤍⁠ ⁠ @simplyperfectnz⁠ @jinalgovindphotography
Elopements might be smaller and more relaxed, but Elopements might be smaller and more relaxed, but elopements don’t magically plan themselves. In fact, they often need more intention behind the scenes to feel easy on the day.⁠ ⁠ Here’s why structure matters, even when it’s just the two of you:⁠ ⁠ • Timing still matters⁠ Light, weather, travel time, and permits all play a role. A loose plan keeps the day flowing without feeling rigid.⁠ ⁠ • Locations come with logistics⁠ Remote spots, heli landings, lake edges, and alpine sites all need coordination, access planning, and backups.⁠ ⁠ • Weather needs a Plan B (and sometimes C)⁠ Especially in Queenstown. Having clear alternatives in place removes last-minute decision stress.⁠ ⁠ • Vendors still need direction⁠ Photographers, celebrants, pilots, drivers… everyone works better when the plan is clear, even if the vibe is relaxed.⁠ ⁠ • You deserve to be present⁠ Structure behind the scenes means you’re not problem-solving on the day. You get to focus on each other, not the logistics.⁠ ⁠ Eloping doesn’t mean winging it. It just means planning with intention, then letting the day unfold naturally. That balance is where elopements really shine.⁠ ⁠ ⁠ Brian & Yannan // 2022 Heli Elopement⁠ 📸 @rich_bayley_photography
If you’re newly engaged, focus on getting the fo If you’re newly engaged, focus on getting the foundations right before diving into details. Here’s what actually matters early on: • Get clear on your priorities Talk about what matters most to you both… location, guest experience, budget, timing. Alignment now makes everything easier later. • Set a realistic budget It doesn’t need to be perfect. Clear numbers and a buffer will guide better decisions as you go. • Choose a rough guest count Not final, just a ballpark. This shapes venues, catering, travel, and the overall feel of the day. • Decide your wedding style Elopement, micro wedding, destination celebration, or something bigger. There’s no right answer, only what fits your lives. • Book key suppliers early Venue, planner, photographer tend to fill first, especially in Queenstown. Everything else can follow. • Slow the pace You don’t need to plan everything in 30 days. Strong foundations now save stress later. And if you’d like support with timelines, vendor guidance, or shaping a day that actually flows… we’re here to help, as much or as little as you need. 🤍 @simplyperfectnz 📸 @katerobergephotography
Autumn nuptials at Lake Hayes, Queenstown B+J // M Autumn nuptials at Lake Hayes, Queenstown B+J // May 2025 @simplyperfectnz @emily_adamson

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